AUTHOR: tbooty DATE: 7/28/2004 07:46:00 PM ----- BODY: swear to God that i did NOT plan this to be my topic for this particular post #.  swear.   that being said......i need some advice.  it's about river boy.  some of you know that it's been a long time since i was in the dating pool.  some of you even know specifics.  it's been a looooooooooooong time since i have had anything resembling a boyfriend.  now, i haven't dated much either.  in fact, the last guy i dated was almost a year ago.  it didn't last long.  couple of weeks.  got some on my birthday though, so that was nice.  lol.  anyway, back to river boy.  (if you don't know what i'm talking about, go back a few posts to where i talked about this guy that wanted to meet for the first time at the river.)    here's the deal.  on the one hand, i want to meet him.  he seems nice, he makes me laugh,  he's fucking good lookin, and from what we've "talked" about in our emails and im's he seems like someone that would be fun to hang out with.   on the other hand, i haven't been on a date in almost a year, he could just be looking for a piece of ass, he could BE an ass,  etc, etc.  i mean, if i could find a man without all of this second guessing and hassle bullshit that would be great.    obviously i didn't meet him at the river last weekend, but now it's sounding like we might meet this weekend and i don't know what to do.  HELP!!   and in being my normal (ok, that's up for discussion) self, i offered up some information that i'm thinking i maybe should have held back now.  the first one, which is fine, is that i'm so NOT a "on the first date" kinda girl.  i'm fine with telling him that up front.  that way there's NO mistaking anything and no expectations.  the other thing?  about the degree and quantity that i like?  that may have been a bit premature.........   SEE??  i need all the help i can get! --------